We must build relationships, get to know one another's children, open our arms rather than close our hearts.
Mandy PatinkinRead
I was forced to lie to my father by doctors and relatives. I made that choice and agreed with them, and I will never, ever get over it. If I hear a lie in my life with my children, with my wife, my work, my audiences, I want to annihilate myself, vaporize myself, and wipe myself off the face of the earth.
Interpretation
This quote expresses the deep regret and emotional turmoil caused by lying to loved ones.
Mandy Patinkin reflects on a painful experience where he felt compelled to lie, highlighting the immense guilt and emotional conflict that arises from dishonesty, especially towards close family members. His strong desire to eliminate himself from existence when confronted with the thought of lying underscores the gravity of relationships rooted in trust and authenticity.
In practice
During a family meeting discussing honesty and values.
We must build relationships, get to know one another's children, open our arms rather than close our hearts.
In my prayers every day, which are a combination of Hebrew prayers and Shakespeare and Sondheim lyrics and things people have said to me that I've written down and shoved in my pocket, I also say the name of every person I've ever known who's passed on.
Only through loving and supporting one another, even in the face of unbearable pain and suffering, will this cycle of violence end.
I try to get that across in the work, to try to, if I'm lucky, to make this world a little bit better for all of us before I check out. And that's if I'm lucky, I don't always get to have that privilege but I try always.
I desperately want to see the day today and do the best I can not miss a shred of sunlight. It'll be over before I know it.
We must not allow the horrific actions of madmen to cut us off from our humanity.
There used to be this real sense of community integrity in rock. It has really eroded. Everyone seems to be on their own now.
Women as mothers grapple with corresponding contradictions. The adoration they feel for their grown daughters, mixed with the sense of responsibility for their well-being, can be overwhelming, matched only by the hurt they feel when their attempts to help or just stay connected are rebuffed or even excoriated as criticism or devilish interference.
Instead of making others right or wrong, or bottling up right and wrong in ourselves, there's a middle way, a very powerful middle way...... Could we have no agenda when we walk into a room with another person, not know what to say, not make that person wrong or right? Could we see, hear, feel other people as they really are? It is powerful to practice this way..... true communication can happen only in that open space.
Put together all the existing families and you have society. It is as simple as that. Whatever kind of training took place in the individual family will be reflected in the kind of society that these families create.
You’ll soon find out some wizarding families are much better than others, Potter. You don’t want to go making friends with the wrong sort. I can help you there.” He held out his hand to shake Harry’s, but Harry didn’t take it. “I think I can tell who the wrong sort are for myself, thanks,” he said coolly.
Visit me once each year, for it's wrong to abandon people forever.
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