Never once, during any of my bouts of depression, had I been inclined or able to pick up a telephone and ask a friend for help. It wasn't in me.
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It was as if my father had given me, by way of temperament, an impossibly wild, dark, and unbroken horse. It was a horse without a name, and a horse with no experience of a bit between its teeth. My mother taught me to gentle it; gave me the discipline and love to break it; and- as Alexander had known so intuitively with Bucephalus- she understood, and taught me, that the beast was best handled by turning it toward the sun.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote illustrates the dual influence of a father and mother in shaping one's character and spirit.
Kay Redfield Jamison uses the metaphor of a wild horse to represent the untamed aspects of her personality and temperament passed down from her father. The quote emphasizes the nurturing role of her mother in teaching her discipline and love in order to harness these strong traits, suggesting that with guidance and understanding, one's inherent qualities can be directed positively, much like turning a horse towards the sun to guide its energy and spirit.
Themes
FatherMotherTemperamentWildDarkDisciplineLove
In practice
Example use cases
In a graduation speech about personal growth and family influence.
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