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Favors cease to be favors when there are conditions attached to them.
Thornton Wilder
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True favors are given selflessly, without expecting anything in return.

This quote by Thornton Wilder emphasizes the idea that a genuine act of kindness should be free from conditions or expectations. When a favor is offered with strings attached, it transforms into a transaction rather than a true act of goodwill, thereby losing its essence as a favor.

Themes

FavorsRelationshipsKindnessSelflessnessConditions

In practice

Example use cases

During a team meeting about collaboration and support, this quote highlights the importance of genuine assistance.

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