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Fear of being a flawed person lay at the root of my trance, and I had sacrificed many moments over the years in trying to prove my worth. Like the tiger Mohini, I inhabited a self-made prison that stopped me from living fully.
Tara Brach
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What this quote means

The quote reflects on the psychological barriers that hinder personal fulfillment due to fear of imperfection and self-worth.

In this quote, Tara Brach expresses how the fear of being flawed can trap an individual in a 'self-made prison,' preventing them from fully experiencing life. She suggests that the quest to prove one's worth can lead to sacrificing authentic moments and true living, similar to how a tiger might be confined by its own cage. This metaphor illustrates the importance of embracing imperfection and freeing oneself from the need for validation.

Themes

FearFlawedSelf-WorthTrancePrisonLivingMomentsValidation

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech addressing personal growth.

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Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha.
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Clearly recognizing what is happening inside us, and regarding what we see with an open, kind and loving heart, is what I call Radical Acceptance. If we are holding back from any part of our experience, if our heart shuts out any part of who we are and what we feel, we are fueling the fears and feelings of separation that sustain the trance of unworthiness. Radical Acceptance directly dismantles the very foundations of this trance.
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Buddhist practices offer a way of saying, 'Hey, come back over here, reconnect.' The only way that you'll actually wake up and have some freedom is if you have the capacity and courage to stay with the vulnerability and the discomfort.
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We, like the Mother of the World, become the compassionate presence that can hold, with tenderness, the rising and passing waves of suffering.
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There is so much division in this world. So what is really the path of healing? It can begin in this moment, by embracing the life that's here.
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We wait for things to be different in order to feel okay with life. As long as we keep attaching our happiness to the external events of our lives, which are ever changing, we’ll always be left waiting for it.
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