It is the first changes among familiar things that make such a mystery of time to the young; afterwards we lose the sense of the mysterious. I take changes in all I see as a matter of course. The instability of all human things is familiar to me, to you it is new and oppressive." (Mr. Bell)
Interpretation
Change brings a sense of mystery to youth, but as we age, we become accustomed to change.
This quote by Elizabeth Gaskell reflects on how the perception of change evolves as we age. For the young, changes in their environment or circumstances can feel overwhelming and mysterious, whereas adults tend to assimilate these changes as a natural part of life. The idea is that familiarity with the instability of life dulls our sense of wonder, making us less sensitive to the nuances of change.
In practice
In a speech about adapting to new circumstances in life.
Neither loss of father, nor loss of mother, dear as she was to Mr Thornton, could have poisoned the remembrance of the weeks, the days, the hours, when a walk of two miles, every step of which was pleasant, as it brought him nearer and nearer to her, took him to her sweet presence - every step of which was rich, as each recurring moment that bore him away from her made him recal some fresh grace in her demeanour, or pleasant pungency in her character.
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Iran has little capacity to deploy force. Its strategic doctrines are defensive, designed to deter invasion long enough for diplomacy to set it.
We need to realize that poverty doesn't only consist of being hungry for bread, but rather it is a tremendous hunger for human dignity. We need to love and to be someone for someone else
A newspaper, not having to act on its descriptions and reports, but only to sell them to idly curious people, has nothing but honor to lose by inaccuracy and non-veracity.
Men in general are quick to believe that which they wish to be true.
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