Nothing is more durable than the dynasty of Doubt; for he reigns in the hearts of all his people, but gives satisfaction to none of them, and yet he is the only despot who can never die, while any of his subjects live.
Charles Caleb ColtonRead
Forgiveness, that noblest of all self-denial, is a virtue which he alone who can practise in himself can willingly believe in another.
Interpretation
Forgiveness is a high moral quality that requires personal practice before it can be accepted or believed in others.
This quote emphasizes the intrinsic nature of forgiveness and how it is an essential virtue that a person must embody within themselves before they can sincerely believe in the capacity for others to forgive. It suggests that the act of forgiving is not just an external gesture but requires deep personal understanding and acceptance of its value.
In practice
During a talk on personal growth, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of self-forgiveness.
Nothing is more durable than the dynasty of Doubt; for he reigns in the hearts of all his people, but gives satisfaction to none of them, and yet he is the only despot who can never die, while any of his subjects live.
It is astonishing how much more people are interested in lengthening life than improving it.
The benevolent have the advantage of the envious, even in this present life; for the envious man is tormented not only by all the ill that befalls himself, but by all the good that happens to another; whereas the benevolent man is the better prepared to bear his own calamities unruffled, from the complacency and serenity he has secured from contemplating the prosperity of all around him.
Happiness, that grand mistress of the ceremonies in the dance of life, impels us through all its mazes and meanderings, but leads none of us by the same route.
Our minds are as different as our faces. We are all traveling to one destination: happiness, but few are going by the same road.
Moderation is the inseparable companion of wisdom, but with it genius has not even a nodding acquaintance.
When I start on a book, I have been thinking about it and making occasional notes for some time... So I have lots of theme, locale, subjects and technical ideas... I don't worry about long periods of not doing anything. I know my subconscious is busy.
Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle.
When the spirit shines, even foggy skies make pleasant light.
I cured myself of shyness when it finally occurred to me that people didn't think about me half as much as I gave them credit for. The truth was, nobody gave a damn. Like most teenagers, I was far too self-centered. When I stopped being prisoner to what I worried was othersβ opinions of me, I became more confident and free.
Sometimes surrender means giving up trying to understand and becoming comfortable with not knowing.
If a few minutes of suffering could make me so angry, what would years of it do? Even a stone can be worn down with enough rain.
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