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I compare myself with my former self, not with others. Not only that, I tend to compare my current self with the best I have been, which is when I have been midly manic. When I am my present "normal" self, I am far removed from when I have been my liveliest, most productive, most intense, most outgoing and effervescent. In sort, for myself, I am a hard act to follow.
Kay Redfield Jamison
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of self-comparison over comparison with others, highlighting a journey of personal growth and acceptance.

In this quote, Kay Redfield Jamison reflects on her approach to self-evaluation by comparing her current state with her past selves rather than with others. She acknowledges the fluctuations in her mental state, particularly the intensity experienced during periods of mania, and how these affect her perception of productivity and liveliness. Ultimately, she suggests that recognizing one's own growth and challenges fosters a more meaningful understanding of self-worth.

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Self-ComparisonGrowthMental HealthProductivityAcceptance

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In a motivational speech about personal development.

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