Slow but steady wins the race.
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If you are a friend, why do you bite me so hard? If an enemy, why do you fawn on me?
Interpretation
The quote questions the sincerity of one's intentions in a relationship, highlighting the complexity of trust and loyalty.
Aesop's quote reflects the perplexing nature of human relationships, particularly the conflicting behaviors that can exist between friends and enemies. It illustrates the confusion that arises when a person's actions seem to contradict their supposed role in one's life, prompting a deep examination of trust and the motivations behind interpersonal interactions.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion on trust and friendships.
Slow but steady wins the race.
We often despise what is most useful to us.
The haft of the arrow had been feathered with one of the eagle's own Lures. We often give our enemies the means of our own destruction.
We hang the petty thieves and appoint the great ones to public office.
The unhappy derive comfort from the misfortunes of others.
Don't kill the goose that lays the golden egg.
We have a saying in the Marine Corps and that is 'no better friend, no worse enemy, than a U.S. Marine.' We always hope for the first, friendship, but are certainly more than ready for the second.
Now, Watson,β said Holmes, as a tall dog-cart dashed up through the gloom, throwing out two golden tunnels of yellow light from its side lanterns. βYouβll come with me, wonβt you?β βIf I can be of use.β βOh, a trusty comrade is always of use; and a chronicler still more so. My room at The Cedars is a double-bedded one.
Only friendliness produces friendship. And we must look far deeper into the soul of man for the thing that produces friendliness.
When I was young I asked more of people than they could give: everlasting friendship, endless feeling. Now I know to ask less of them than they can give: a straightforward companionship. And their feelings, their friendship, their generous actions seem in my eyes to be wholly miraculous: a consequence of grace alone.
A friend is one with whom you are comfortable, to whom you are loyal, through whom you are blessed, and for whom you are grateful.
There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first; when you learn to live for others, they will live for you.
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