The peoples of the Mediterranean began to emerge from barbarism when they learned to cultivate the olive and the vine.
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We secure our friends not by accepting favors but by doing them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True friendship is built on mutual support and selfless actions rather than merely accepting help.
This quote by Thucydides emphasizes that authentic friendships are formed not through receiving favors or assistance, but rather through the act of offering support and kindness to others. It highlights the importance of being proactive in relationships, suggesting that our bonds with friends strengthen when we prioritize their needs and uplift them through our actions.
Themes
FriendshipSupportSelflessnessKindnessRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of community, one might quote this to emphasize giving back.
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