The peoples of the Mediterranean began to emerge from barbarism when they learned to cultivate the olive and the vine.
ThucydidesRead
We secure our friends not by accepting favors but by doing them.
Interpretation
True friendship is built on mutual support and selfless actions rather than merely accepting help.
This quote by Thucydides emphasizes that authentic friendships are formed not through receiving favors or assistance, but rather through the act of offering support and kindness to others. It highlights the importance of being proactive in relationships, suggesting that our bonds with friends strengthen when we prioritize their needs and uplift them through our actions.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of community, one might quote this to emphasize giving back.
The peoples of the Mediterranean began to emerge from barbarism when they learned to cultivate the olive and the vine.
We Greeks are lovers of the beautiful, yet simple in our tastes, and we cultivate the mind without loss of manliness.
If it had not been for the pernicious power of envy, men would not so have exalted vengeance above innocence and profit above justice... in these acts of revenge on others, men take it upon themselves to begin the process of repealing those general laws of humanity which are there to give a hope of salvation to all who are in distress.
Thucydides, an Athenian, wrote the history of the war between the Peloponnesians and the Athenians, he began at the moment that it broke out, believing that it would be a great war, and more memorable than any that had preceded it.
Some legislators only wish to vengeance against a particular enemy. Others only look out for themselves. They devote very little time on the consideration of any public issue. They think that no harm will come from their neglect. They act as if it is always the business of somebody else to look after this or that. When this selfish notion is entertained by all, the commonwealth slowly begins to decay.
Remember that this greatness was won by men with courage, with knowledge of their duty, and with a sense of honor in action.
I was told so many times when I was a kid, 'I can't be friends with you, you're too intense, you're too sad all the time.' I really thought that when I made the first album that everyone would understand me, all the people who weren't my friends would become my friends.
We are one in Christ; let us be friends with one another; but let us never be friends with one anotherβs error. If I be wrong, rebuke me sternly; I can bear it, and bear it cheerfully; and if ye be wrong, expect the like measure from me, and neither peace nor parley with your mistakes.
Today I know this: when it comes time to take stock, the most painful wound is that of broken friendships; and there is nothing more foolish than to sacrifice a friendship to politics.
I never meant to write about the experience of losing a good friend to breast cancer when I was going through it. But after it was over, I realized that although something deeply sad had happened, something truly beautiful also had.
I have no trouble with y enemies. But my god damn friends... they are the ones that keep me walking the floors at night.
My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.
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