The foolβs life is empty of gratitude and full of fears; its course lies wholly toward the future.
EpicurusRead
All friendship is desirable in itself, though it starts from the need of help
Interpretation
Friendship is valuable in its own right, even if it often begins from a need for support.
Epicurus suggests that while friendships may initially arise from a desire for assistance or companionship, their true value lies in the inherent qualities of the relationship itself. The essence of friendship transcends the initial motivations that bring people together, highlighting that the connection formed is worthwhile, independent of its origins in necessity.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of relationships, this quote highlights the intrinsic value of friendship.
The foolβs life is empty of gratitude and full of fears; its course lies wholly toward the future.
Accustom yourself to believe that death is nothing to us, for good and evil imply awareness, and death is the privation of all awareness; therefore a right understanding that death is nothing to us makes the mortality of life enjoyable, not by adding to life an unlimited time, but by taking away the yearning after immortality. For life has no terror; for those who thoroughly apprehend that there are no terrors for them in ceasing to live.
The wise man who has become accustomed to necessities knows better how to share with others than how to take from them, so great a treasure of self-sufficiency has he found.
We should look for someone to eat and drink with before looking for something to eat and drink.
I was not, I was, I am not, I care not. (Non fui, fui, non sum, non curo)
Of all the means to insure happiness throughout the whole life, by far the most important is the acquisition of friends.
Loving friendships provide us with a space to experience the joy of community in a relationship where we learn to process all our issues, to cope with differences and conflict while staying connected.
...of two simple men I saw today on the pier in the midst of the crowd, parting the parting of dear friends, the one to remain hung on the other's neck and passionately kissed him. While the one to depart tightly pressed the one to remain in his arms.
I think that I had better go, Holmes." "Not a bit, doctor. Stay where you are. I am lost without my Boswell.
The ease of his manner freed me from painful restraint; the friendly frankness, as correct as cordial, with which he treated me, drew me to him
A doubtful friend is worse than a certain enemy. Let a man be one thing or the other, and we then know how to meet him.
Only solitary men know the full joys of friendship. Others have their family; but to a solitary and an exile, his friends are everything.
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