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Friendships are the family we make - not the one we inherit. I've always been someone to whom friendship, elective affinities, is as important as family.
Salman Rushdie
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Friendships can be as significant as family, emphasizing the bonds we choose to create.

This quote by Salman Rushdie highlights the importance of friendships in our lives, suggesting that the connections we choose to make can be as profound and meaningful as those we are born into. It advocates for valuing elective affinities—our friendships—as a vital part of our emotional support and social structure, reflecting the idea that we can create our own 'family' through chosen relationships.

Themes

FriendshipFamilyRelationshipsBondsConnections

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech highlighting the importance of chosen family, this quote could emphasize the strength of friendships.

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