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It is a general rule of human nature that people despise those who treat them well, and look up to those who make no concessions.
Thucydides
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People often admire those who are assertive and unyielding, while resenting those who are kind and accommodating.

This quote by Thucydides reflects the paradox in human behavior where kindness is sometimes met with disdain and a lack of appreciation. It suggests that individuals tend to respect those who are firm and unwavering, viewing them as strong, while they may take the kindness of others for granted, perceiving it as weakness or insincerity. This insight reveals the complexities of social interactions and the often contradictory nature of human relations.

Themes

Human NatureAdmirationKindnessStrengthSocial Dynamics

In practice

Example use cases

During a discussion about leadership styles, someone might quote Thucydides to highlight the importance of assertiveness.

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