The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
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What is called generosity is usually only the vanity of giving; we enjoy the vanity more than the thing given.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True generosity often comes from a desire for self-importance rather than the act of giving itself.
In this quote, Francois De La Rochefoucauld suggests that what we often perceive as generosity is masked by our own pride and the pleasure we derive from being seen as generous. This reflection prompts us to question the authenticity of our altruistic actions, indicating that our motivations may be more self-serving than we realize. It urges us to contemplate whether our acts of giving are sincere or if they are merely a means to boost our self-esteem.
Themes
GenerosityVanityGivingSelfishnessAltruism
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the true motivations behind charitable actions.
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