Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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While the gentleman cherishes benign rule, the small man cherishes his native land. While the gentleman cherishes a respect for the law, the small man cherishes generous treatment.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote contrasts the values of people of different moral and social standings, highlighting the importance of benevolence and the law.
Confucius presents a dichotomy between the 'gentleman' who values higher ideals such as benevolent governance and respect for the law, and the 'small man' who prioritizes attachment to his homeland and the kindness he receives. This distinction suggests that while higher principles are admirable, the simpler values of compassion and belonging are equally significant in shaping a person's character and priorities.
Themes
GentlemanSmall ManLawBenevolenceKindnessValues
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about community values, one might say this quote to emphasize the importance of compassion.
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