If we have the courage and tenacity of our forebears, who stood firmly like a rock against the lash of slavery, we shall find a way to do for our day what they did for theirs.
Mary Mcleod BethuneRead
Forgiving is not about forgetting, it's letting go of the hurt
Interpretation
Forgiveness involves releasing the pain rather than erasing memories of the past.
This quote emphasizes that true forgiveness is not about pretending that a hurtful event never happened, but rather about choosing to release the emotional pain associated with that event. It highlights the importance of moving forward and freeing oneself from the burden of negative feelings, allowing for personal growth and healing.
In practice
In a discussion about overcoming past trauma, you can share this quote to illustrate the importance of emotional healing.
If we have the courage and tenacity of our forebears, who stood firmly like a rock against the lash of slavery, we shall find a way to do for our day what they did for theirs.
You white folks have long been eating the white meat of the chicken. We Negroes are now ready for some of the white meat instead of the dark meat.
Enter to learn; depart to serve.
We live in a world which respects power above all things. Power, intelligently directed, can lead to more freedom. Unwisely directed, it can be a dreadful, destructive force.
What does the Negro want? His answer is very simple. He wants only what all other Americans want. He wants opportunity to make real what the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution and the Bill of Rights say, what the Four Freedoms establish. While he knows these ideals are open to no man completely, he wants only his equal chance to obtain them.
Whatever the white man has done, we have done, and often better.
Pleasures, riches, honor and joy are sure to have care, disgrace, adversity and affliction in their train. There is no pleasure without pain, no joy without sorrow. O the folly of expecting lasting felicity in a vale of tears, or a paradise in a ruined world.
Human knowledge and skills alone cannot lead humanity to a happy and dignified life. Humanity has every reason to place the proclaimers of high moral standards and values above the discoverers of objective truth.
I am afraid that I rather give myself away when I explain," said he. "Results without causes are much more impressive.
A good liar knows that the most efficient lie is always a truth that has had a key piece removed from it.
As long as one is following the right way, one should never be concerned about the reproaches of those who like to find faults.
When you expect to get into a negotiation, you expect to be faced by a guy that's going to attack you, a guy or gal that's going to attack or that they're going to try to get the best of you. Two-thirds of us, that makes us very defensive.
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