Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.
Lord ChesterfieldRead
Good breeding is the result of good sense, some good nature, and a little self-denial for the sake of others.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Good breeding refers to polite behavior achieved through intelligence, kindness, and self-restraint.
This quote by Lord Chesterfield emphasizes that true good breeding, which is often associated with refined manners and etiquette, comes not just from social status but from a combination of intelligence, natural kindness, and the willingness to put others' needs before one's own. It suggests that the essence of being well-mannered is rooted in self-awareness and consideration for others.
Themes
BreedingGood SenseKindnessSelf-DenialEtiquette
In practice
Example use cases
A speech on social etiquette at a professional networking event.
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