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A great many men's gratitude is nothing but a secret desire to hook in more valuable kindnesses hereafter.
Francois De La Rochefoucauld
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People often show gratitude with ulterior motives, hoping to receive more favors in the future.

This quote suggests that many expressions of gratitude are not entirely sincere; instead, they may be driven by a self-serving agenda where individuals seek to benefit from future acts of kindness. It highlights the complex nature of human relationships, where the motivations behind our actions can be masked by the facade of appreciation.

Themes

GratitudeKindnessRelationshipsSelfishnessMotivation

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about volunteering, one might use this quote to provoke thought about the true nature of giving and gratitude.

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