You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
The great thing about irony is that it splits things apart, gets up above them so we can see the flaws and hypocrisies and duplicates.
Interpretation
Irony allows us to view situations critically, revealing their contradictions and shortcomings.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace emphasizes the value of irony as a tool for gaining perspective on our lives and the world around us. By stepping back and analyzing situations with an ironic lens, we can uncover the deeper flaws, hypocrisies, and repetitions that often go unnoticed, thus fostering a more profound understanding of our experiences and societal norms.
In practice
In a discussion about societal norms, one could invoke this quote to highlight common contradictions.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
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It was a good thing to have a couple of thousand people all rigid and frozen together, in the palm of one's hand.
When some state or other offered Alexander a part of its territory and half of all its property he told them that 'he hadn't come to Asia with the intention of accepting whatever they cared to give him, but of letting them keep whatever he chose to leave them.' Philosophy, likewise, tells all other occupations: 'It's not my intention to accept whatever time is leftover from you; you shall have, instead, what I reject.' Give your whole mind to her.
We are born of light. The seasons are felt through light. We only know the world as it is evoked by light.
You don't make peace with friends. You make it with very unsavory enemies.
The perfect man of old looked after himself first before looking to help others.
To posit the existence of a Creator requires only reason. To posit the existence of a good God requires faith.
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