You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
The great thing about irony is that it splits things apart, gets up above them so we can see the flaws and hypocrisies and duplicates.
Interpretation
Irony allows us to view situations critically, revealing their contradictions and shortcomings.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace emphasizes the value of irony as a tool for gaining perspective on our lives and the world around us. By stepping back and analyzing situations with an ironic lens, we can uncover the deeper flaws, hypocrisies, and repetitions that often go unnoticed, thus fostering a more profound understanding of our experiences and societal norms.
In practice
In a discussion about societal norms, one could invoke this quote to highlight common contradictions.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
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To know the history of science is to recognize the mortality of any claim to universal truth.
I clearly saw the skeleton underneath all this show of personality what is left of a man and all his pride but bones?
A cosmic philosophy is not constructed to fit a man; a cosmic philosophy is constructed to fit a cosmos. A man can no more possess a private religion than he can possess a private sun and moon.
The best news of the Christian gospel is that the supremely glorious Creator of the universe has acted in Jesus Christ's death and resurrection to remove every obstacle between us and himself so that we may find everlasting joy in seeing and savoring his infinite beauty.
God is subtle but he is not malicious.
Taxing is an easy business. Any projector can contrive new impositions; any bungler can add to the old; but is it altogether wise to have no other bounds to your impositions than the patience of those who are to bear them?
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