Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
EpictetusRead
No greater thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig. If you tell me that you desire a fig, I answer you that there must be time. Let it first blossom, then bear fruit, then ripen.
Interpretation
Great things require time and patience to develop, much like fruit growing from a flower.
This quote by Epictetus emphasizes the importance of patience and the natural processes behind creation and achievement. Just as grapes and figs must go through stages of growth—blossoming, bearing fruit, and ripening—so too do our desires and ambitions require time to come to fruition. The message is that one should not rush the process but rather allow it to unfold naturally.
In practice
In a motivational speech about personal development, you can share this quote to emphasize the need for patience.
Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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If we treasure our own experience and regard it as real, we must also treasure other people's experience.
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