One can imagine the look the two lovers exchanged; it was like a flame, for virtuous lovers have not a shred of hypocrisy.
Who is to decide which is the grimmer sight: withered hearts, or empty skulls?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the deeper emotional and existential struggles of life, comparing the sorrow of lost emotions to the starkness of death.
In this quote, Honore De Balzac presents a profound commentary on human existence by contrasting the imagery of 'withered hearts'—which symbolize emotional desolation and loss of love—with 'empty skulls,' representing death and the absence of life. The rhetorical question invites the reader to ponder the relative severity of emotional suffering versus physical death, suggesting that the pain of unfulfilled desires and lost connections can be as haunting as the finality of death itself.
Themes
In practice
Example use cases
During a philosophical discussion on the meaning of life, you could use this quote to illustrate the depth of emotional suffering.
More from Honore De Balzac
All quotes →Loyalty in time of need is possibly one of the noblest of victories a courtier can win over himself.
Marriage must incessantly contend with a monster that devours everything: familiarity.
However gross a man may be, the minute he expresses a strong and genuine affection, some inner secretion alters his features, animates his gestures, and colors his voice. The stupidest man will often, under the stress of passion, achieve heights of eloquence, in thought if not in language, and seem to move in some luminous sphere. Goriot's voice and gesture had at this moment the power of communication that characterizes the great actor. Are not our finer feelings the poems of the human will?
Love is a religion, and its rituals cost more than those of other religions. It goes by quickly and, like a street urchin, it likes to mark its passage by a trail of devastation.
Imaginative, sanguine men will never recognize that in negotiations the most dangerous moment of all is when everything is moving according to their wishes.
Similar quotes
Let us admit, without bitterness, that the individual has his distinct interests and can, without felony, stipulate for those interests and defend them. The present has its pardonable amount of egotism; momentary life has its claims, and cannot be expected to sacrifice itself incessantly to the future. The generation which is in its turn passing over the earth is not forced to abridge its life for the sake of the generations, its equals after all, whose turn shall come later on.
We are all born like Catholics, aren't we—in limbo, without religion, until some figure introduces us to God?
For I do not exist: there exist but the thousands of mirrors that reflect me. With every acquaintance I make, the population of phantoms resembling me increases. Somewhere they live, somewhere they multiply. I alone do not exist.
One can experience loneliness in two ways: by feeling lonely in the world or by feeling the loneliness of the world.
…but there they lay, sprawled across the field, craved far more by the vultures than by wives.
A man is the sum of his misfortunes. One day you'd think misfortune would get tired but then time is your misfortune