If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.
Anne Morrow LindberghRead
How hard it is to have the beautiful interdependence of marriage and yet be strong in oneself alone.
Interpretation
Marriage requires both unity and independence.
This quote reflects the delicate balance in marriage between the mutual dependency that partners develop and the individual strength that each person must maintain. It emphasizes the challenge of nurturing a loving partnership while also promoting personal autonomy and self-reliance.
In practice
During a marriage seminar, this quote can be used to illustrate the importance of both unity and individuality in relationships.
If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.
When each partner loves so completely that he has forgotten to ask himself whether or not he is loved in return; when he only knows that he loves and is moving to its music--then, and then only are two people able to dance perfectly in tune to the same rhythm.
It isn't for the moment you are struck that you need courage, but for that long uphill climb back to sanity and faith and security.
Travelers are always discoverers, especially those who travel by air. There are no signposts in the sky to show a man has passed that way before. There are no channels marked. The flier breaks each second into new uncharted seas.
Don't wish me happiness - I don't expect to be happy it's gotten beyond that, somehow. Wish me courage and strength and a sense of humor - I will need them all.
I am most anxious to give my own children enough love and understanding so that they won't grow up with an aching void in them--like you and I and Harold and Martha. That can never be filled, and one goes around all one's life trying, trying to make up for what one didn't get that was one's birthright, asking the wrong people for it.
I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I donβt mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated
In the end, like so many beautiful promises in our lives, that dinner date never came to be.
Forgiveness means that I continually am willing to forgive the other person for not being God β for not fulfilling all my needs. I, too, must ask forgiveness for not being able to fulfill other people's needs. β¦ The interesting thing is that when you can forgive people for not being God, then you can celebrate that they are a reflection of God.
Forgiveness is manifested mercy; it is live in action - not love based on a feeling, but love based on a decision, an intentional choice to obey God.
Compliments and praise, for their part, are tragic expressions of fulfilled needs
Once I heard my mother say that each of us lives in a separate universe, one we have dreamed into being. We love pople when their dream coincides with ours, the way two cutout designs laid one on top of the other might match. But dream worlds are not static like cutouts; sooner or later they change shape, leading to misunderstanding, loneliness and loss of love.
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