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Marriage must fight constantly against a monster which devours everything: routine.
Honore De Balzac
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Marriage requires ongoing effort to combat the dullness of routine.

In this quote, Honore De Balzac highlights the challenges that come with maintaining a marriage. The 'monster' referred to is routine, which can gradually erode the spark and excitement in a relationship if not actively managed. It emphasizes the importance of continual effort and creativity in nurturing love and companionship to prevent the relationship from becoming monotonous.

Themes

MarriageRoutineEffortLoveRelationships

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding speech, one might say, 'As Honore De Balzac reminds us, we must fight against the monster of routine in our marriage.'

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