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There is an Italian proverb which saith, From my enemy let me defend myself; but from a pretensed friend Lord deliver me
Elizabeth I
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote warns against the dangers of those who pretend to be friends while harboring ill intentions.

In this quote, Elizabeth I reflects on the notion that it is often easier to defend oneself from open enemies than from those who masquerade as friends but have ulterior motives. The wisdom of the proverb suggests that false friends can be more harmful than foes, as their deceit can blindside us and lead to greater betrayal and hurt.

Themes

FriendshipBetrayalWisdomDeceitEnemies

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about trust, one could say, 'Remember the words of Elizabeth I: From a pretensed friend, Lord deliver me.'

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