I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death; and flung it back to me. People feel with their hearts, Ellen, and since he has destroyed mine, I have not power to feel for him.
Emily BronteRead
I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death; and flung it back to me.
Interpretation
This quote expresses the pain and betrayal felt after loving someone who mistreats your trust and emotions.
Emily Bronte's quote captures the anguish of giving your heart to someone, only to have them abuse that trust and return the love in a damaged state. It illustrates the deep emotional wounds that can result from a relationship where one person fails to appreciate or honor the vulnerability and passion that love entails.
In practice
This quote can be used in a conversation about the painful side of love during a breakup support group.
I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death; and flung it back to me. People feel with their hearts, Ellen, and since he has destroyed mine, I have not power to feel for him.
I ran to the children's room: their door was ajar, I saw they had never laid down, though it was past midnight; but they were calmer, and did not need me to console them. The little souls were comforting each other with better thoughts than I could have hit on: no parson in the world ever pictured heaven so beautifully as they did, in their innocent talk; and, while I sobbed, and listened. I could not help wishing we were all there safe together.
Vain are the thousand creeds That move men's hearts, unutterably vain; Worthless as withered weeds, Or idlest froth amid the boundless main.
Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.
He had been content with daily labour and rough animal enjoyments, 'till Catherine crossed his path. Shame at her scorn, and hope of her approval, were his first prompts to higher pursuits; and, instead of guarding him from one and winning him to the other, his endeavors to raise himself had produced just the contrary result.
And, even yet, I dare not let it languish, Dare not indulge in memory's rapturous pain; Once drinking deep of that divinest anguish, How could I seek the empty world again?
She's beautiful, and therefore to be wooed; She is a woman, therefore to be won.
Something in your eyes captured my soul, and every night I see you in my dreams. You're all I know. I can't let go.
Curve: The loveliest distance between two points.
I do not love thee, Sabidius, nor can I say why; I can only say this, "I do not love thee."
When he thought of her, it rather amazed him, that he had let that girl with her violin go. Now, of course, he saw that her self-effacing proposal was quite irrelevant. All she had needed was the certainty of his love, and his reassurance that there was no hurry when a lifetime lay ahead of them. Love and patience- if only he had had them both at once- would surely have seen them both through.
The journey from teaching about love to allowing myself to be loved proved much longer than I realised.
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