I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
Charles BukowskiRead
Human relationships didn't work anyhow. Only the first two weeks had any zing, then the participants lost their interest. Masks dropped away and real people began to appear: cranks, imbeciles, the demented, the vengeful, sadists, killers. Modern society had created its own kind and they feasted on each other. It was a duel to the death--in a cesspool.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Human relationships tend to start with excitement but often deteriorate into negativity as true personalities emerge.
In this quote, Charles Bukowski expresses a cynical view of human relationships, indicating that the initial thrill of a new connection quickly fades, revealing the darker aspects of human nature. He suggests that modern society fosters toxic interactions, leading to a brutal competition among people who unveil their true, often unpleasant, selves once the initial facade wears off.
Themes
RelationshipsHuman NatureCynicismSocietyToxicity
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the fleeting nature of modern friendships, this quote can illustrate the inevitable decline of initial excitement.
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