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All that a husband or wife really wants is to be pitied a little, praised a little, and appreciated a little.
Oliver Goldsmith
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Interpretation

What this quote means

A spouse desires empathy, recognition, and gratitude from their partner.

This quote by Oliver Goldsmith emphasizes the fundamental emotional needs of a husband or wife within a marriage. It suggests that in addition to love and companionship, partners seek to be understood, valued, and appreciated for who they are, highlighting the importance of emotional support and validation in close relationships.

Themes

EmpathyAppreciationMarriageRelationshipValidation

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding speech, you might say this to highlight the importance of appreciation in marriage.

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