When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
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In order for connection to happen, we have to allow ourselves to be seen, really seen.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True connection requires vulnerability and openness to be truly understood.
BrenΓ© Brown emphasizes that authentic connection with others can only occur when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and fully visible. This means shedding our defenses and showing our true selves, making it possible for others to see and appreciate us for who we are, thereby fostering genuine relationships.
Themes
ConnectionVulnerabilityAuthenticityRelationshipsOpenness
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop on building trust, this quote could be used to emphasize the importance of vulnerability.
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