...we shall board our imagined ship and wildly sail among sacred islands of the mad till death shatters the fabulous stars and makes us real.
Sylvia PlathRead
I'm never going to get married." "You're crazy." Buddy brightened. "You'll change your mind." "No. My mind's made up.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a steadfast decision against marriage and highlights the pressure of societal expectations.
In this quote, the speaker expresses a firm commitment to remaining single, despite external pressures to conform to societal norms around marriage. The conversation reveals the tension between personal choice and societal expectations, as the speaker's assertive stance contrasts sharply with the encouragement to reconsider. It underscores the importance of individual convictions in the face of others' opinions and assumptions about love and partnership.
In practice
In a discussion about the pressures of marriage during a family gathering.
...we shall board our imagined ship and wildly sail among sacred islands of the mad till death shatters the fabulous stars and makes us real.
The hardest thing, I think, is to live richly in the present, without letting it be tainted & spoiled out of fear for the future or regret for a badly-managed past.
It is as if my life were magically run by two electric currents: joyous positive and despairing negative--which ever is running at the moment dominates my life, floods it.
You walked in, laughing, tears welling confused, mingling in your throat. How can you be so many women to so many people, oh you strange girl?
I keep wanting to crawl back into the womb.
It's the living, the eating, the sleeping that everyone needs. Ideas don't matter so much after all. My three best friends are Catholic. I can't see their beliefs, but I can see the things they love to do on earth. When you come right down to it, I do believe in the freedom of the individual.
Itβs hard to communicate anything exactly and thatβs why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.
I realized I had been keeping people around even when deep down I knew they were bad for me. I had overridden myself.
I'm not convinced about marriage. Divorce is so easy, and that fact that gay people are not allowed to marry takes much of the meaning out of it. Committing yourself to one person is sacred.
Be honest, brutally honest. That is what's going to maintain relationships.
Sometimes I feel like I don't belong anywhere, & it's gonna take so long for me to get to somewhere, Sometimes I feel so heavy hearted, but I can't explain cuz I'm so guarded. But that's a lonely road to travel, and a heavy load to bear. And it's a long, long way to heaven but I gotta get there Can you send an angel? Can you send me an angel...to guide me.
You know your problem, Quentin? You keep expecting people not to be themselves.
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