We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness'.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the significance of being attentive and caring in a relationship, highlighting the importance of witnessing each other's lives.
Susan Sarandon's quote reflects on the crucial role of a witness in our lives, especially within the context of marriage. It suggests that in a committed partnership, individuals promise to recognize and care for all aspects of each other's existence, no matter how trivial or significant. This mutual acknowledgment serves to validate one's life experiences, affirming that nothing about them will go unnoticed, thus creating a profound bond founded on understanding and support.
In practice
During a wedding ceremony, this quote can be shared to emphasize the vows being made.
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