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I'm not sure if resilience is ever achieved alone. Experience allows us to learn from example. But if we have someone who loves us-I don't mean who indulges us, but who loves us enough to be on our side-then it's easier to grow resilience, to grow belief in self, to grow self-esteem. And it's self-esteem that allows a person to stand up.
Maya Angelou
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Resilience is easier to build when supported by love and encouragement from others.

Maya Angelou emphasizes the importance of supportive relationships in developing resilience and self-esteem. While personal experiences teach us valuable lessons, having someone who truly loves and stands by us greatly facilitates our ability to grow, believe in ourselves, and ultimately stand up against life's challenges.

Themes

ResilienceLoveSelf-EsteemSupportGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about overcoming obstacles, a speaker could use this quote to highlight the role of support in personal growth.

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