[My mother] always said I was beautiful and I finally believed her at some point.
Lupita Nyong'ORead
My immediate family was always very supportive. It was my own fear of the rest of the world not accepting me, the rest of our society not accepting my wish to be an actor.
Interpretation
Support from family is crucial, but personal fears can hinder acceptance in broader society.
This quote reflects the importance of familial support in pursuing one's dreams, while also highlighting the personal struggles of fear and doubt that individuals often face from societal expectations. Lupita Nyong'o emphasizes that despite having a loving and supportive family, the fear of rejection from the outside world can be a significant barrier to pursuing one's passions, such as acting in her case.
In practice
This quote can be shared in a family gathering to highlight the importance of support.
[My mother] always said I was beautiful and I finally believed her at some point.
What is fundamentally beautiful is compassion: for yourself and for those around you.
That you will feel the validation of your external beauty but also get to the deeper business of being beautiful inside. There is no shade in that beauty.
As human beings, we aren't as individual as we'd like to believe we are. And I think that's what makes acting possible. Despite the fact that I have not experienced something, I have it in my human capacity to imagine it and to put myself in someone else's shoes, and to take someone else's circumstances personally.
I've loved the opportunity to learn about the fashion world and appreciate it as an art form, and I look forward to my continued education, but I never want it to take over my acting.
There is no shame in black beauty.
As she stood in the darkened room and watched my sister and father, I knew one of things that heaven meant. I had a choice, and it was not to divide my family in my heart.
Chemo days make me tired, though it's hard to say that's because of the chemo when you have kids who have inherited their dad's usual energy level.
The one thing I want to leave my children is an honorable name.
It seems like just yesterday my son was hiding under the table to avoid reading. Now, he's writing books longer than mine!
In Afghan society, parents play a central role in the lives of their children; the parent-child relationship is fundamental to who you are and what you become and how you perceive yourself, and it is laden with contradictions, with tension, with anger, with love, with loathing, with angst.
She's an immensely powerful woman, and I just admire my mother very much.
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