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We cannot control what others choose to do, and so we cannot force our children to heaven, but we can determine what we will do. And we can decide that we will do all we can to bring down the powers of heaven into that family we want so much to have forever.
Henry B. Eyring
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We can't control others' choices, but we can influence our own actions to create a loving family environment.

This quote speaks to the limitations of parental control, emphasizing that while we cannot dictate the choices of others, especially our children, we do have the power to shape our own actions and intentions. By focusing on our own decisions and striving to infuse our family life with love and support, we can create an atmosphere that nurtures growth and connection, ultimately striving for a lasting family bond that embodies the ideals of heaven and harmony.

Themes

FamilyControlChoicesLoveHeavenInfluence

In practice

Example use cases

During a family gathering to emphasize the importance of family unity.

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