Everyone has two memories. The one you can tell and the one that is stuck to the underside of that, the dark, tarry smear of what happened.
Amy BloomRead
You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful.
Interpretation
Embracing imperfections can lead to recognizing one's inherent beauty.
This quote by Amy Bloom highlights the idea that every individual has flaws and imperfections that are an intrinsic part of humanity. Instead of viewing these flaws negatively, the quote encourages us to accept and appreciate them, suggesting that true beauty lies in our authenticity and the uniqueness shaped by our imperfections.
In practice
During a motivational speech about self-acceptance.
Everyone has two memories. The one you can tell and the one that is stuck to the underside of that, the dark, tarry smear of what happened.
Boundaries are the lines we draw that mark off our autonomy and that of other people, that protect our privacy and that of others. Boundaries allow for intimate connection without dissolving or losing one's sense of self.
When you acknowledge that there is nothing repulsive or unforgivable or shameful about yourself, it becomes easier to be that authentic person and feel like you're living a less performed life.
He is not to pass for a man of reason who stumbles upon reason by chance but he who knows it and can judge it and has a true taste for it.
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It's the fear that we're not good enough.
Too many people get credit for being good, when they are only being passive. They are too often praised for being broadminded when they are so broadminded they can never make up their minds about anything.
Imagination is the source of all human achievement.
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