You are not going to destroy this imperialist white supremacist capitalist patriarchy by creating your own version of it.
Interpretation
True change cannot come from replicating oppressive systems; it requires a revolutionary approach.
Bell Hooks suggests that merely replacing the structures of power and oppression with similar systems does not lead to genuine change. Instead, meaningful transformation requires a different mindset and new approaches that challenge the existing imperialist, white supremacist, capitalist patriarchy, advocating for equity and justice rather than reproducing its dynamics.
In practice
This quote could be used in a lecture about social justice movements.
Privilege is not in and of itself bad; what matters is what we do with privilege. I want to live in a world where all women have access to education, and all women can earn PhDβs, if they so desire. Privilege does not have to be negative, but we have to share our resources and take direction about how to use our privilege in ways that empower those who lack it.
Self-love is the foundation of our loving practice. Without it our other efforts to love fail. Giving ourselves love we provide our inner being with the opportunity to have the unconditional love we may have always longed to receive from someone else.
While privacy strengthens all our bonds, secrecy weakens and damages connection. Lerner points out that we do not usually "know the emotional costs of keeping a secret" until the truth is disclosed. Usually, secrecy involves lying. And lying is always the setting for potential betrayal and violation of trust.
When we only name the problem, when we state complaint without a constructive focus or resolution, we take hope away. In this way critique can become merely an expression of profound cynicism, which then works to sustain dominator culture.
Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can change, and there is hope.
I still think it's important for people to have a sharp, ongoing critique of marriage in patriarchal society β because once you marry within a society that remains patriarchal, no matter how alternative you want to be within your unit, there is still a culture outside you that will impose many, many values on you whether you want them to or not.
Choice not chance determines your destiny [my family motto...credited to Aristotle]
The love of posterity is the consequence of the necessity of death. If a man were sure of living forever here, he would not care about his offspring.
Eternity is not an unending succession of days in the calendar, but something more like the supreme moment of satisfaction, in which totality embraces us and we embrace totality.
And if there's a moral there, I don't know what it is, save maybe that we should take our goodbyes whenever we can.
Rights are best guarded when each person and group guards for others those rights they wish guarded for themselves.
This moment! - this here-now - is forgotten when you start thinking in terms of achieving something. When the achieving mind arises, you lose contact with the paradise you are in.
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