What you have become is the price you paid to get what you used to want.
Mignon MclaughlinRead
It is important to our friends to believe that we are unreservedly frank with them, and important to friendship that we are not.
Interpretation
Friendship relies on a balance of honesty and discretion.
This quote by Mignon McLaughlin highlights the complex nature of friendship, suggesting that while friends value honesty, there are limits to how much truth is shared. It implies that complete transparency may not always be beneficial to the relationship, as some truths might hurt or complicate the bond between friends.
In practice
During a speech about the importance of building strong friendships.
What you have become is the price you paid to get what you used to want.
In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.
Society honors its living conformists and its dead troublemakers.
The hardest-learned lesson: that people have only their kind of love to give, not our kind.
Nostalgia for what we have lost is more bearable than nostalgia for what we have never had, for the first involves knowledge and pleasure, the second only ignorance and pain.
True friendship ought never to conceal what it thinks.
The reason for my starting a diary is that I have no real friend.
Strangers are family you haven't recognize yet
No one can take the place of a friend, no one.
There can be no Friendship where there is no Freedom. Friendship loves a free Air, and will not be penned up in straight and narrow Enclosures. It will speak freely, and act so too; and take nothing ill where no ill is meant; nay, where it is, 'twill easily forgive, and forget too, upon small Acknowledgments.
Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.
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