What you have become is the price you paid to get what you used to want.
Mignon MclaughlinRead
It is important to our friends to believe that we are unreservedly frank with them, and important to friendship that we are not.
Interpretation
Friendship relies on a balance of honesty and discretion.
This quote by Mignon McLaughlin highlights the complex nature of friendship, suggesting that while friends value honesty, there are limits to how much truth is shared. It implies that complete transparency may not always be beneficial to the relationship, as some truths might hurt or complicate the bond between friends.
In practice
During a speech about the importance of building strong friendships.
What you have become is the price you paid to get what you used to want.
In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.
Society honors its living conformists and its dead troublemakers.
The hardest-learned lesson: that people have only their kind of love to give, not our kind.
Nostalgia for what we have lost is more bearable than nostalgia for what we have never had, for the first involves knowledge and pleasure, the second only ignorance and pain.
Friendships are the family we make - not the one we inherit. I've always been someone to whom friendship, elective affinities, is as important as family.
When I was young, I expected from people more than they could give: neverending friendship and constant excitement. Now I expect less than they can actually can give: to stay close silently. And their feelings, friendship, noble deeds always seem like a miracle to me: a true grace.
from you, my dear Erasmus, let me obtain this request, that just as I bear with your ignorance in these matters, so you in turn will bear with my lack of eloquence.
The friends we have lost do not repose under the ground...they are buried deep in our hearts. It has been thus ordained that they may always accompany us.
Friendship is a serious affection; the most sublime of all affections, because it is founded on principle, and cemented by time.
Two of man's basic needs are to love and to share. Both of these needs are satisfied in greater or lesser degree by friendship.
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