If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
No one can take the place of a friend, no one.
Interpretation
The unique value of friends cannot be replaced by anyone else.
This quote emphasizes the irreplaceable nature of friendship, highlighting how a true friend holds a significant and unique place in oneβs life. It suggests that the bond and connection formed with a friend is so special that no one else can fulfill that role or provide the same support and understanding.
In practice
During a graduation speech about the importance of friendships in life.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
To see a friend who has suffered the loss of all things begin again with trust and love, gives us strength to continue on.
Whoever understands how to do a kindness when he fares well would be a friend better than any possession.
However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship.
Robert Mapplethorpe, I met in 1967. He was a student at Pratt, though even as a student a fully formed artist. We went through many things in our life together. He became my loved one, then my best friend.
We ought, all of us, to realize each other in this intense, pathetic, and important way. If you say that this is absurd, and that we cannot be in love with everyone at once, I merely point out to you that, as a matter of fact, certain persons do exist with an enormous capacity for friendship and for taking delight in other people's lives; and that such persons know more of truth than if their hearts were not so big.
Labor and trouble one can always get through alone, but it takes two to be glad.
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