Regard as your most faithful friends, not those who praise everything you say or do, but those who criticize your mistakes.
IsocratesRead
It is more important to know where you are going than to get there quickly. Do not mistake activity for achievement. Remember that there is nothing stable in human affairs, therefore avoid undue elation in prosperity or undue depression in adversity.
Interpretation
Prioritizing direction in life is more important than rushing to reach your goals, and one should remain balanced in success and failure.
This quote from Isocrates emphasizes the importance of having a clear purpose and direction in life, rather than simply being preoccupied with the speed at which we achieve our goals. It warns against equating mere activity with true accomplishment and reminds us to maintain a steady mindset in both success and failure, as life's circumstances are ever-changing.
In practice
During a motivational seminar focusing on personal development.
Regard as your most faithful friends, not those who praise everything you say or do, but those who criticize your mistakes.
But I marvel when I observe these men setting themselves up as instructors of youth who cannot see that they are applying the analogy of an art with hard and fast rules to a creative process
Spend your leisure time in cultivating an ear attentive to discourse, for in this way you will find that you learn with ease what others have found out with difficulty.
And let no one suppose that I claim that just living can be taught for, in a word, I hold that there does not exist an art of the kind which can implant sobriety and justice into depraved natures. Nevertheless, I do think that the study of political discourse can help more than any other thing to stimulate and form such qualities of character
Of all our possessions, wisdom alone is immortal.
Abhor flatterers as you would deceivers; for both, if trusted, injure those who trust them. If you admit as friends men who seek your favor for the lowest ends, your life will be lacking in friends who will risk your displeasure for the highest good.
By trying to understand everything, everything makes me dream
The thing that you think is imperfect about you is the thing that makes you who you are. It separates you from everybody else. I have a scar on my lip, and for years I hated it. But now its become my thing. It's like, without it, I'm not me. You can't be perfect, so enjoy your imperfections. I can't stress that enough.
I am alive and well and unconcerned about the rumors of my death. But if I were dead, I would be the last to know.
That is where my dearest and brightest dreams have ranged — to hear for the duration of a heartbeat the universe and the totality of life in its mysterious, innate harmony.
I saw something even more beautiful than a sense of humor: an appreciation for life’s essential absurdity.
I've made peace with the fact that the things that I thought were weaknesses or flaws were just me. I like them.
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