Regard as your most faithful friends, not those who praise everything you say or do, but those who criticize your mistakes.
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Spend your leisure time in cultivating an ear attentive to discourse, for in this way you will find that you learn with ease what others have found out with difficulty.
Interpretation
Value the time spent listening to others, as it can lead to easier understanding and learning.
This quote by Isocrates emphasizes the importance of active listening and engaging in meaningful conversations during leisure time. By cultivating an 'ear attentive to discourse,' individuals can absorb knowledge and insights more effortlessly, gaining wisdom that others may have struggled to acquire through their own efforts.
In practice
In a workshop about effective communication, this quote could inspire participants to engage more with their peers.
Regard as your most faithful friends, not those who praise everything you say or do, but those who criticize your mistakes.
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