If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
The most important thing I can tell you about aging is this: If you really feel that you want to have an off-the-shoulder blouse and some big beads and thong sandals and a dirndl skirt and a magnolia in your hair, do it. Even if you're wrinkled.
Interpretation
Embrace your individuality and express yourself, regardless of age or appearance.
Maya Angelou emphasizes that aging should not hinder personal expression and individuality. Her quote encourages people to confidently embrace their desires and styles, advocating for self-acceptance and joy in self-expression, no matter one's age or physical changes.
In practice
At a family gathering, you could share this quote to encourage your elders to dress as they like.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
I love revisions...We can't go back and revise our lives, but being allowed to go back and revise what we have written comes closest.
If you would stop, really stop, damning yourself, others, and unkind conditions, you would find it almost impossible to upset yourself emotionally - about anything. Yes, anything.
Words are a lens to focus one's mind.
Genius is always allowed some leeway, once the hammer has been pried from its hands and the blood has been cleaned up.
Beware the tyranny of the weak. They just suck you dry.
I am an old man but in many senses a very young man. And this is what I want you to be, young, young all your life.
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