Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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It is impossible that happiness, and yearning for what is not present, should ever be united.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness cannot coexist with a desire for what one lacks.
In this quote, Epictetus emphasizes the idea that true happiness comes from embracing what we have rather than longing for what we do not possess. The yearning for absent elements in our lives creates a sense of dissatisfaction that hinders our ability to experience joy and contentment in the present moment.
Themes
HappinessYearningContentmentPresentDesire
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about finding joy in the present.
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