It is when we try to grapple with another man's intimate need that we perceive how incomprehensible, wavering and misty are the beings that share with us the sight of the stars and the warmth of the sun. It is as if loneliness were a hard and absolute condition of existence; the envelope of flesh and blood on which our eyes are fixed melts before the outstretched hand, and there remains only the capricious, unconsolable and elusive spirit that no eye can follow, no hand can grasp.
No, it is impossible; it is impossible to convey the life-sensation of any given epoch of one’s existence--that which makes its truth, its meaning--its subtle and penetrating essence. It is impossible. We live, as we dream--alone.
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What this quote means
The quote expresses the idea that personal experiences and sensations are inherently individual and cannot be fully communicated to others.
Joseph Conrad's quote reflects on the profound solitude of human experience, suggesting that the essence of our life sensations, the truths that define our existence, cannot be wholly shared or conveyed to others. Each person's interpretations and feelings during different epochs of life are inherently unique, leading to a reality where we exist in isolation, much like we dream alone. This emphasizes the complexity of individual consciousness and the limits of communication between people.
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In a speech about the nature of personal growth and understanding, this quote could illustrate the depth of our individual journeys.
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Hang ideas! They are tramps, vagabonds, knocking at the back-door of your mind, each taking a little of your substance, each carrying away some crumb of that belief in a few simple notions you must cling to if you want to live decently and would like to die easy!
Joy and sorrow in this world pass into each other, mingling their forms and their murmurs in the twilight of life as mysterious as an overshadowed ocean, while the dazzling brightness of supreme hopes lies far off, fascinating and still, on the distant edge of the horizon
The artist appeals to that part of our being...which is a gift and not an acquisition - and, therefore, more permanently enduring.
History repeats itself, but the special call of an art which has passed away is never reproduced. It is as utterly gone out of the world as the song of a destroyed wild bird.
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