No man doth think others will be better to him than he is to them.
Benjamin WhichcoteRead
It is impossible for a man to be made happy by putting him in a happy place, unless he be first in a happy state.
Interpretation
True happiness comes from within and is not solely dependent on external circumstances.
This quote underscores the idea that external conditions or environments cannot create genuine happiness unless the individual has a positive internal state. It suggests that happiness is primarily a result of one's mindset and emotional well-being, indicating that true contentment starts from within rather than from the outside world.
In practice
This quote can be used as a motivational reminder during a mental health workshop.
No man doth think others will be better to him than he is to them.
Some things must be good in themselves, else there could be no measure whereby to lay out good and evil.
Believe things, rather than man.
Man is a wonder to himself; he can neither govern nor know himself.
Right and truth are greater than any power, and all power is limited by right.
Conscience without judgment is superstition.
One reason I don't drink is that I want to know when I am having a good time.
In my experience, it is rarer to find a really happy person in a circle of millionaires than among vagabonds.
Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.
Happiness is caused by things that happen around me, and circumstances will mar it; but joy flows right on through trouble; joy flows in the night as well as in the day; joy flows through persecution and opposition. It is an unceasing fountain bubbling up in the heart; a secret spring the world can't see and doesn't know anything about.
I don't look my best when I wake up! But I do feel beautiful when I'm tired and happy and I've had a good laugh and a glass of champagne.
If I am happy in spite of my deprivations, if my happiness is so deep that it is a faith, so thoughtful that it becomes a philosophy of life. If, in short, I am an optimist, my testimony to the creed of optimism is worth hearing.
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