I pay very little regard...to what any young person says on the subject of marriage. If they profess a disinclination for it, I only set it down that they have not yet seen the right person.
Indeed, I am very sorry to be right in this instance. I would much rather have been merry than wise.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The speaker regrets being correct about a serious matter, wishing instead for joy rather than insight.
In this quote, Jane Austen expresses a sentiment of remorse for being right about a situation that brings sadness or seriousness, indicating that she would prefer the light-heartedness and joy of being merry rather than the burden of wisdom that comes with painful truths. It highlights the often bittersweet nature of knowledge and the desire for happiness over the weight of reality.
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Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of maintaining a positive outlook, one could reference Austen's quote to emphasize that joy is often more desirable than being right in somber situations.
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You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever.
She hoped to be wise and reasonable in time; but alas! Alas! She must confess to herself that she was not wise yet.
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