Balm of the summer night, balm of the ordinary, imperial joy and sorrow of human existence, the dreamed as well as the lived— what could be dearer than this, given the closeness of death?
Louise GluckRead
I pretended indifference…even in the presence of love, in the presence of hunger. And the more deeply I felt, the less able I was to respond.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects the struggle of showing vulnerability and emotion, particularly in moments of deep feeling or love.
Louise Gluck expresses the internal conflict of feeling intense emotion while struggling to visibly react to it. The notion of pretending indifference underscores a defense mechanism against vulnerability, suggesting that even profound feelings of love and desire can lead to paralysis in emotional expression.
Themes
IndifferenceLoveVulnerabilityEmotionResponse
In practice
Example use cases
During a heartfelt speech at a wedding, one might quote this to express the complexities of love.
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