Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
Douglas CouplandRead
Given the infinite number of coincidences that could happen, very few ever actually do. The universe exists in a coincidence-hating state of anti-fluke.
Interpretation
Coincidences are surprisingly rare despite an infinite number of possibilities in the universe.
This quote emphasizes the rarity of true coincidences in our lives, suggesting that while the universe is vast and full of potential outcomes, most events are not mere accidents but rather the result of underlying patterns or influences. Douglas Coupland points out that the universe seems to operate against the idea of random happenstance, making us reconsider the nature of events we might otherwise dismiss as coincidence.
In practice
In a discussion about fate versus randomness, this quote can illustrate the idea that coincidences may be more meaningful than they appear.
Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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The rights of neutrality will only be respected when they are defended by an adequate power. A nation, despicable by its weakness, forfeits even the privilege of being neutral.
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The question of souls is old—we demand our bodies, now. We are tired of promises, god is deaf, and his church is our worst enemy.
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