Consider the nematode roundworm, the most abundant of all animals. Four out of five animals on Earth are nematode worms — if all solid materials except nematode worms were to be eliminated, you could still see the ghostly outline of most of it in nematode worms.
If insemination were the sole biological function of sex, it could be achieved far more economically in a few seconds of mounting and insertion. Indeed, the least social of mammals mate with scarcely more ceremony. The species that have evolved long-term bonds are also, by and large, the ones that rely on elaborate courtship rituals. . . . Love and sex do indeed go together.
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What this quote means
This quote suggests that the complexities of love and courtship go beyond mere biological functions, emphasizing the significance of emotional bonding.
E. O. Wilson points out that while the primary biological purpose of sex is reproduction, the social behaviors surrounding mating, such as courtship rituals, highlight the deeper emotional connections that have evolved in certain species. This indicates that love and sexual relations are intricately linked, challenging the notion that physical interactions alone define mating; rather, affection and emotional bonds enrich the experience.
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Example use cases
In a wedding speech to highlight the importance of emotional connections in marriage.
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