Even more than we want good love for ourselves, we want it for our children, those vulnerable satellites of our hearts that we send, unsteady, into the world.
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Instead of a dedicated room, my best trigger is the actual habit of reading over the texts from the day before. Marking. Changing. Fussing. This ritual amounts to a habit of trust. Trust that I can make it better. That if I keep trying, I will come closer to something true.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the importance of reflection and trust in personal growth through continuous effort.
Mona Simpson highlights the value of revisiting past work as a means to improve and refine one's thoughts and ideas. This practice not only reinforces the habit of reflection but also nurtures trust in one’s ability to develop and approach the truth, suggesting that persistent effort and self-assessment lead to greater understanding and clarity.
Themes
ReflectionTrustHabitsImprovementGrowth
In practice
Example use cases
In a book club meeting to discuss the importance of revisiting texts for deeper understanding.
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