Even more than we want good love for ourselves, we want it for our children, those vulnerable satellites of our hearts that we send, unsteady, into the world.
Mona SimpsonRead
Instead of a dedicated room, my best trigger is the actual habit of reading over the texts from the day before. Marking. Changing. Fussing. This ritual amounts to a habit of trust. Trust that I can make it better. That if I keep trying, I will come closer to something true.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of reflection and trust in personal growth through continuous effort.
Mona Simpson highlights the value of revisiting past work as a means to improve and refine one's thoughts and ideas. This practice not only reinforces the habit of reflection but also nurtures trust in one’s ability to develop and approach the truth, suggesting that persistent effort and self-assessment lead to greater understanding and clarity.
In practice
In a book club meeting to discuss the importance of revisiting texts for deeper understanding.
Even more than we want good love for ourselves, we want it for our children, those vulnerable satellites of our hearts that we send, unsteady, into the world.
Even as a feminist, my whole life I'd been waiting for a man to love who could love me. For decades, I'd thought that man would be my father. When I was 25, I met that man, and he was my brother.
Writers collect stories of rituals: John Cheever putting on a jacket and tie to go down to the basement, where he kept a desk near the boiler room. Keats buttoning up his clean white shirt to write in, after work.
We come into the world whole, all of us, but we don't know that, don't know that life will be taking large chunks out of us, forever.
There's no difference between a pessimist who says, "Oh it's hopeless, so don't bother doing anything." and an optimist who says, "Don't bother doing anything, it's going to turn out fine anyways. Either way, nothing happens."
A man must be prepared not only to be a martyr, but to be a fool. It is absurd to say that a man is ready to toil and die for his convictions if he is not even ready to wear a wreathe around his head for them.
It hurt, of course, but more often than not the best things do, I've found.
A mind of moderate capacity which closely pursues one study must infallibly arrive at great proficiency in that study.
Lukewarm people will serve God and others, but there are limits to how far they will go or how much time, money, and energy they are willing to give.
Between here and heaven, every minute that the Christian lives will be a minute of grace.
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