Even more than we want good love for ourselves, we want it for our children, those vulnerable satellites of our hearts that we send, unsteady, into the world.
Writers collect stories of rituals: John Cheever putting on a jacket and tie to go down to the basement, where he kept a desk near the boiler room. Keats buttoning up his clean white shirt to write in, after work.
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The quote reflects on the personal rituals that writers engage in to create an atmosphere conducive to writing.
In this quote, Mona Simpson highlights the significance of rituals in the lives of writers, showcasing how mundane activities, such as dressing formally or creating a dedicated writing space, can enhance creativity and focus. By sharing specific examples of John Cheever and John Keats, she emphasizes that these rituals serve as a bridge between their daily lives and the sacred act of writing, illustrating the importance of habit and preparation in the creative process.
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During a writing workshop, I shared how my morning coffee ritual helps me get into the right mindset for writing.
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