I've always had as many powerful, creative ladies in my life as I have men, and you could probably describe some of those relationships as romantic. I think everyone's bisexual to some degree or another; it's just a question of whether or not you choose to recognise it and embrace it. Personally, I think choosing between men and women is like choosing between cake and ice cream. You'd be daft not to try both when there are so many different flavours.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the fluidity of attraction and the value of embracing love in various forms.
Bjork's quote reflects her belief in the bisexuality inherent in most people and the importance of recognizing and embracing diverse relationships, whether romantic or platonic. She uses the metaphor of choosing between cake and ice cream to suggest that limiting oneself to one gender is a missed opportunity to experience the richness of love and connection with others, regardless of gender.
In practice
This quote can be used during a talk on LGBTQ+ acceptance and fluidity in relationships.
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When you stop putting yourself on the line, and you don't touch your own heart, how do you expect to touch other people?
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Having felt people's love and support first hand through difficult moments in my life makes me feel it's our responsibility to help one another.
I'll make him an offer he can't refuse.
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