I gave him my heart, and he took and pinched it to death; and flung it back to me. People feel with their hearts, Ellen, and since he has destroyed mine, I have not power to feel for him.
I've no more business to marry Edgar Linton than I have to be in heaven and if the wicked man in there had not brought Heathcliff so low I shouldn't have thought of it. It would degrade me to marry Heathcliff now so he shall never know how I love him and that not because he's handsome Nelly but because he's more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of his and mine are the same and Linton's is as different as a moonbeam from lightning or frost from fire.
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What this quote means
The speaker feels a deep, intrinsic connection with Heathcliff that transcends societal norms and superficial appearances.
In this quote, the speaker expresses a profound love for Heathcliff, describing how their souls are fundamentally interconnected, contrasting it with her feelings towards Edgar Linton. She suggests that her emotional and spiritual bond with Heathcliff is so strong that marrying anyone else would be a degradation of her true self, highlighting the depth of her unique love that goes beyond physical attractiveness or social standing.
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Example use cases
During a discussion on romantic love and soul connections, this quote beautifully illustrates how deep affection can surpass societal expectations.
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